Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Life on the Inside

February 17, 2010

As every parent knows, from moment to moment, the mood at home can change. As sweet snickers leave her lips, a teeny air bubble is jiggled loose, causing abdominal discomfort and the only way the babe has to communicate is to wail in pain. Classic example of "happy to sad." The same is true the other way around. In the middle of an excruciating teething episode, she throws her head backwards, arching her back... then her eye catches a glimpse of "our boys," Franklin and Parker, sitting on the rug. Staring. At. Her. She stops. Gives a "hhmmmm" vocalization to show she sees them. Pulls herself back up. Stares back into my eyes. And the screaming explosion begins once again.

Ah. There's simply nothing like it.

What I always try to remember is an entry in a book I read early on in pregnancy. It went something like, "A baby's cry is the only form of communication she has. Whether she has a sharp pin stuck in her rump or she realizes she can't see mom anymore... the response is the same. WAAAHHHHHH!"

With that, here are some of the emotions we experience in our house on a daily basis. Of course, I've tried to include more smiles than.... the alternative!

Eating.

Eating at the Beck household is serious business...
Well, not THAT serious!
In fact, sometimes it's downright silly:

Teething.

Teething = Drama. Our poor bean takes teething pretty hard. She flails her arms, throws her body backwards, turns her head from side to side, sometimes grabs her ears... and ended up with double ear infections during our last teething pass. Ugh. Poor thing. The good thing is that we all got through it. It's just a matter of time. Until the next ones pop through.

I'll spare you the "drama shots." We'll focus on "the goods" - two shiny (and SHARP) ones here:
And practicing our "aahhh"s before we "brush" our teeth (with a washcloth so far) The Car Seat.

Now here's a not-so-happy little lady. She's never been a fan of her car seat. But she's to the point now where she nearly pulls out her "strike" sign when she sees it. She makes her body as stiff as a board, sometimes making an arch out of her back in protest. When she is in, the wiggling begins. It's a struggle, but we keep telling her it's safer than the luggage rack. She'll come around.

Once we actually get her strapped in and secure, the goal is to provide something interesting to occupy her hands (and thus, brain) so it's not so awful to be confined. Here, a bottle did the trick. And that brings us to some growth... self feeding. She's always eager to help toys, her feet, my arm... whatever's handy... directly into her mouth. I suppose she's looking to introduce everything to her new teeth!

Valentine's Day.

My Pal Violet. That's her newest toy's name. Though, it's not just any toy. First, daddy picked it out. Sweet.

Second, Violet knows Calista's name and shares her favorite color, animal and food with her. She sings, talks, giggles and plays music. If only Violet could change a diaper!!


Big Birthday

Though Calista just turned seven months, Grandma Rabe just turned the big 5-5. We celebrated in style in Minnesota by throwing a little party. Lots of food, fun and, best of all, family. Here, Great Uncle Jim helps Calista into one of her favorite positions - a true monkey, she loves to view the world upside-down!

And here, Great Aunt Bev holds Calista carefully after noting how "freakishly strong" the little champ is! And it's so true... she packs a lot of power into her 14 pounds!! Calista looks very interested in getting her hands on Great Uncle Don.

No trip to MN would be complete without a bit of play time with Uncle Paul. Here, he's made a true circus act out of the bean - teaching her to balance a plate on her head while sitting up and clapping. As evidenced here, Paul's only capable of handling two of those three skills at once :)
General sweetness.

At the end of the day, nothing is better than curling up with Daddy!


Thursday, February 4, 2010

Resolutions, Schmesolutions.

February 4, 2010 You know how people get all motivated with that "no one can stop me," "I'm better than I've ever been," "look who's gonna conquer the world now" attitude around January first? I know it as resolution season. And I don't subscribe to its power, it's motivational prowess or its luster.

Now, I'm not being a negative nelly... just honest. Call me "realistic Roxi" or "matter-of-fact mama." I resolved many years ago... decades in fact (Omigosh... I've been around for DECADES?!) that my sole resolution was to not make resolutions.

Now, just because I'm not keen on the idea o
f making a statement about "always and forever, never shall I break this commitment," doesn't mean I don't have ideas about things I want to achieve. It's just that I don't think the turn of the year is the only time to start anew with goals, dreams and activities.

It is with this in mind that I embark on a new goal. I am going to do my best, among the banana-devouring sessions, cranky teething episodes, adorable giggle-fests, trying-to-find-time-to-get-the-mail-opened-during-the-week weeks and many more nothing-but-baby-moments, to capture images of our life... mostly of our Calista Bean. My hope is that, over time, it becomes more habit than forced goal.


So, here's the inaugural short-but-sweet post to start a trend of many to come.
Looking at this shot, I think of growth. Yes, the obvious is apparent. But I'm talking growth in skills. Calista now has impressive sitting skills and is exploring her world with such vigor. Her cognitive growth is entertaining. Whether helping turn the pages of her Silly Sally book, excitedly cooing at and reaching for her monkey, Hoodwink, or feeding herself mum-mum treats, each new skill sets the stage for so many more to come. Daddy is most excited for future soccer lessons, I'm looking forward to long runs, summers in the pool, craft projects and teaching her to write her name... to name a few.

Here's to growth... for all of us.

Cheers!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

A star in the making

October 27, 2009

What a great weekend :) Friday night, Grandma and Grandpa Rabe arrived to spend the weekend. Saturday marked Calista's first charity event (as a child, instead of a fetus) - she, five of my girlfriends, three of Calista's little friends and I took part in the Komen Race for the Cure (along with 25,000+ other hopeful people). And Sunday was Calista's first photo shoot. When we left, we weren't sure how the photos were going to turn out because she was a bit timid and a bit tired and simply not very smiley as she had been. Even still, we think the little lady did pretty well. Here's a short video of where we landed - enjoy!

Monday, August 31, 2009

Change is gonna come

August 31, 2009


It has been a long while since my last post. Even though I've not yet gotten a shower in today because Calista's had a rough day, so far, I thought it was time to FINALLY get some photos posted so you can see her progress... especially since today is t minus eight days until I return to work and CBB starts her first day as a "big girl" at daycare (go away tears!)

Beware! The little 4 pound, 11 ouncer you remember has changed a lot! Dare I call her chunkified?? Probably not... but as she nears a weight nearly double her birth weight, it's tempting :)

7/23/09: Spening time in her nursery with Dad - for the first time!


7/24/09: Her first full day home from the NICU - despite a restless night, she looks very refreshed!7/26/09: Chris and my sixth wedding anniversary! We couldn't have asked for a more perfect angel to celebrate!
7/27/09: Near perfection!

7/27/09: Psyched to go for a car ride!


7/29/09: This is love :)

7/30/09: Look at those peepers!

7/30/09: His eye is on the prize!

7/31/09: Daddy thinks she looks delicious!


8/2/09: Calista loves her Grandma Rabe! We had a BBQ and pool party at our house - Calista got to join the fun outside, but with the heat, her pants came off and she got to show off her pretty little legs!

8/3/09: After a meal, she's as happy as can be!


8/4/09: Freshly bathed... so serene!

8/5/09: Franklin borrowed Calista's bib. They're great pals, eh? What's ironic is that Frank is more than three times Calista's size :)


8/6/09: A cozy moment with Daddy :)


8/06/09: "I see you!" Calista enjoying Ashton's swing!

8/7/09: It's time for a wardrobe change... here's intermission :) She's getting longer and more filled out every day!!
8/8/09: Happy 95th Birthday Great Grandpa Marvin Rabe!! Four generations here!

8/9/09: Our first full family portrait on the Robanabe farm in Minnesota with the boys, Parker and Franklin.
And here's a couple with the newest Beck member:


8/11/09: If you didn't know she was stretching here, you may think she is busting a move in her panda outfit (thanks Jessie, Nick and Haley!):


8/11/09: Priceless.
8
/12/09: Fun in the tub - she looks like she's ready for Broadway - just needs a little work on those jazz hands!

8/21/09: She loves auntie Kari and Grandpa Rabe too!

8/22/09: Ready for a walk with mom, aunie Kari and the boys!
8/23/09: Daddy created a makeshift bassinet... hey, must've been pretty comfortable! (It's a diaper box... size newborn, which still fit her very well).

8/24/09: Like her legs? they are so much more filled out!!
8/26/09: In her sling - the only thing that kept her happy that morning!
8/27/09: Happy Birthday Grandpa Bob Rabe - thinking of you!

8/28/09: Keeing the PEACE alive:

8/28/09: I'm pretty sure they were singing something from Fiddler on the Roof...? (Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match...)


8/31/09: Saying a prayer... and giving mom a break :)